The Inspiration Nation

December 16, 2007

What does unprotected sex and war have in common?

Filed under: Peace — tshombe @ 5:33 pm

bushcondom.jpgMy partner, Chad, works at Village Books, a local independently-owned bookstore in town.  He came home from work the other day and told me that on the main counter of the store next to one of the cash registers are Bush Condoms for sale.

Bush Condoms?

Yes, indeed.

"For Schmucks That Won’t Pull Out."

This was very interesting for me to hear.  And a little surprising, since I wouldn’t exactly call Village Books a Left-leaning (not that the terms "left" and "right" have any real political meaning, anyway) bookstore.

Sure, they have certain paraphernalia that isn’t particularly flattering to the head of the current US administration, but this particular item makes no bones about the specific political stance of the bookstore owners.  They are definitely against this war.

One of Chad’s coworkers was disturbed by the Bush Condoms, stating that she felt they were "in poor taste."

Since there are at least two very explicit messages that can be read here, I’m left to wonder whether she was offended by the sex reference or the war one because she failed to elaborate.

The obvious message is clear (i.e., Bush needs to remove all troops from Iraq) and reminds me of the debate that continues to this day of whether George Bush was justified in going to war with Iraq in the first place.

The way of inspiration is the way of peace.  It is impossible to "keep the peace" via military action.  A.J. Muste said (also attributed to Mahatma Ghandi), "There is no way (e.g. via war) to peace; peace is the way."

In other words — in my book, at least — there can be no justification for war.  If there was not a war in Iraq, or in any other place, it would be meaningless to call anyone a schuck that won’t pull out.

However, there is another message that is equally explicit here, one that I am not sure that the owners of the bookstore carefully took into account.  Of course, I don’t know this; I am making an assumption.

The implication is that contraception — at least condoms — is only necessary for "schmucks that won’t pull out."  What is more, it implies that ‘pulling out’ is an acceptable form of birth control (nevermind the other health risks associated with unprotected sexual activity).

If these implications were not true, the analogy — and thus the punch line — would fall flat, essentially meaningless.

These messages — that there could be any justified war that would potentially need to be pulled out of, and that "pulling out" during sex is an acceptable way to prevent pregnancy — are neither inspirational nor responsible.

I’m not even sure they — like much of the bumper sticker activism — even serve their intended purpose….except perhaps to complain or blame.

In this case, if the point was to create the opportunity to dialogue about the war and what can be done to bring it to an end, judging from the reaction of Chad’s coworker, it really only served to shut down conversation because it was "in poor taste" — except for those who happen to agree with the owners’ assessment of the situation.

What do you think?

Are the Bush Condoms in poor taste?

If you were the store owner, would you have made the Bush Condoms available for purchase in your store? 

 

November 29, 2007

Why I have a problem with the word “forgive”

Filed under: Peace, Personal Development — tshombe @ 5:34 pm

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by Elevated; Some Rights Reserved
I’m not sure I particularly like the word “forgive,” at least the way it is commonly used.

Forgiveness is wrapped up with the religious concept that there is something inherently wrong with us.

But for the great mercy and benevolent grace of a fickle, unknowable god, we’d be hapless sinners, doomed to the everlasting fire.

This is nonsense.  It just keeps people stuck where they are, addicted to guilt and blame.

What is there to forgive, anyway?

Deepak Chopra (in his book, Peace is the Way) offers this refreshing thought on the matter:

Whatever mistake you have made about who you are is temporary. Your true identity has remained untouched.  You have never sinned against it or affected it in any way except to lose touch with it.  The prevailing problem for each person is separation and nothing else…there is no self to change.  There are only masks that we wear for a moment and then discard.  If you can cherish yourself even as you discard your current favorite mask, you are living perfectly in the way of peace.

Of course, if we do something that harms or dishonors ourselves or someone else, it is natural (and right) to feel genuinely sorry for it and seek to make complete restitution.

But there is no need for wailing, dressing in sackcloth, and sitting in dust and ashes.

Taking responsibility doesn’t mean assigning guilt or blame to ourselves (or anyone else).

Nneka over at Balanced Life Center addresses the tendency to flog ourselves over some perceived wrong and how to release that so that we can move on with our lives in joy instead of self-blame.

She titles her blog entry, Forgive Yourself.

But that’s OK; I forgive her :) (Just kidding!)

October 28, 2007

How to become a peacemaker

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A rare studio photograph of Gandhi taken in London at the request of Lord Irwin, 1931
This past Saturday, October 27, there was an anti-war rally in Seattle, one of 11 that were scheduled to occur in major US cities across the country. At least 20,000 were expected to attend/participate in the Seattle rally alone.

The opposition is primarily to the current Iraq war, which has been described as unjust. That’s interesting.  Isn’t all war unjust?

Deepak Chopra is perhaps the most well-known Indian medical doctor (and certainly the most prolific Indian author) on the planet, and it has taken me until just the other day to pick up his 2005 book, Peace is the Way: Bringing War and Violence to an End.

I was immediately struck by the title (I am an ordained Minister of Peace), and as I began to read it, I was captivated by Chopra’s positive, inspirational message of/for peace. Inspiration for the title comes from a quote of Mahatma Gandhi, who said, "There is no way to peace. Peace is the way."

In fact, there is a peace movement already underway, Chopra writes, and each one of us can quicken its unfolding by progressively becoming peacemakers now.

One way we can do this is by embracing and actively carrying out what Deepak Chopra calls the Seven Practices for Peace570415-1121876-thumbnail.jpg
Deepak Chopra, M.D.
(p. 24). Each day of the week, Chopra outlines a simple, specific practice that takes only a few minutes to carry out. In this way, each of us individually — one person at a time — can end war for ourselves by shifiting our allegiance to peace.

What can one person do?

 "A million tiny earthquakes move more ground than a single cataclysmic quake," Chopra answers.  "There is no bettter or easier way to live than by catching the wave of evolution." Yes, there is power in specific, individual action!

Will you join me in this 7-part program for peace?

Today (Sunday) begins the first day of the program; you may join in at any time.  Just click on the link in the navigation bar to access the practice for each day.

Each day this week, I will add the practice for that day that each of us will follow (If you happen to have the book, the Deepak Chopra’s program begins on page 24).   Of course, this time next Sunday begins the cycle of peacemaking anew, so you will repeat today’s practice then.

Concerning the practices, Chopra says “You can be as private or outspoken as you wish.”  I’ve arranged each day’s practice in a discussion forum format, so if you feel so inclined, please freely share how your new, active path for peace is impacting you and those around you.

Isn’t it wonderful to know that, rather than feel powerless in a world that seems addicted to war, you and I can effect positive change oriented toward peace starting right now?

 

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